Grandmother Wants a Vote in Child's Name, Gets Outvoted Anyways

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    Font - Posted by u/Ok-Cranberry-9158 Grandparents "deserve a vote" in baby names? Ok, let's hold a vote When I was pregnant my MIL asked us what names we were thinking for the baby. My husband and I had decided on a name, which she didn't like because she wanted us to name the baby after her mother. I held firm and my husband did too but she cried and whined to him enough that he started to cave. We were at her home for Sunday dinner when she started in on me again. I asked her why her wishes as
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    Font - I let my parents know the situation and I then called my FIL (divorced from MIL) and let him know the situation too. I let my MIL and husband know I'd like to do a grandparents dinner at our home where we could talk about the baby and our plans for labor and delivery etc (I wanted to do that anyway). They said ok. At dinner after we discussed some of those logistics, I announced that there was a name that we had picked and a name MIL picked and that I agreed with her that grandparents des
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    Font - cynical-mage 2 hr. ago This is a beautiful little piece of malicious compliance, seriously. There is literally no way out for mil here that doesn't include her actually coming out and saying that she thinks she's most important in this dynamic, and having her ridiculousness revealed. Bloody fantastic! Vote ... Reply Share redpurplegreen22 · 2 hr. ago My MIL has used the "shouldn't we get a vote" before when trying to convince my wife and I to do stuff. My wife and I just said "if you get
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    Font - It always drove her insane, because she knew even if she "got a vote" we wouldn't do what she wanted. She knew it wasn't that my parents always agreed with us, it was that my parents firmly believed we should make our own decisions. Eventually she stopped trying. She still gives us shit on occasion, but she's mellowed in recent years. MILs like this always confuse me, though, because there are really only two options: 1 is that they, as parents, raised children capable of being successful
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    Font - ophaus 2 hr. ago My wife and I refused to share our kids' names with anyone before they were put on the birth certificate. Some of our family were a bit irritated, but it was definitely for the best, the introductions were wonderful! 4 Vote ↓ ... Reply Share kmkmrod 2 hr. ago That was a smart move. My sister-in-law "stole" the name my wife and I were going to use. Turns out my wife knew she'd do it so she lied to her about the name we liked, and she stole it, and we used the name we actua
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    Font - rosesngunsp238 - 2 hr. ago Hey my mother-in-law told me I would have to fight with my father-in-law over the name I wanted. I said " oh that's easy it's not his child." Vote Reply Share Metalbound 1 hr. ago Lol I would have been even meaner about it with a simple, "No I won't." What entitled people to think they have a chance at naming someone else's child. Vote ... Reply Share
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    Font - Ishidan012 hr. ago and by vote she meant veto, of course. Isn't it amazing the difference letter order makes? Vote Reply Share BalloonShip 40 min. ago "A vote. The only vote." Vote Reply Share

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